Occasionally I get "You know, you should be more mindful about what you've been doing with regards to X. I'm not going to tell you what to do, I'm only going to tell you that X is more important than you think. If you continue to do X the same way you've always done it, that's fine. But think about why you're doing it."
So, it's a command to decide for myself

That. I get that a lot.
"are you SUUUUUUUURE you want to do things this way? go think."