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Author Topic: DivEx - shadowbird  (Read 1027 times)
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« Topic Start: May 17, 2011, 09:00:54 pm »

I am at a major crossroads right now, and my own divination attempts have illuminated my choices but offered no guidance. I could really use an outsider's perspective here. Any method is fine--I have used and am familiar with tarot and oracle cards, but whatever method people are comfortable with is fine.

Situation: My current partner and I recently moved to a new living situation. There was a lot of lying and secrecy about money going on (on her part) prior to the move, and we've incurred a lot of debt. We need to move out of our apartment at the end of the month, neither of us has steady income, and we're not sure where we'll go exactly. I feel like I should leave this relationship, because I don't know where things are going or what to do, and I feel like if I were on my own I could make better choices. I do love her, I'm just not sure we're healthy together. We're engaged, and her parents will also pitch a fit over this, understandably.

I am concerned that this is clouded on two fronts: One, my health is really poor right now, and I am possibly not thinking things through in a way that will be most beneficial for my physical well-being. Two, my ex, who I'm still in love with (which everyone knows, including my current partner--we're poly) and I have started talking more regularly, and have a coffee date planned, and I really want to go down that road. If I end up pursuing grad school at my institution of choice, I'll be moving to her part of the country.

I'm worried that if I leave I'll just be doing it because I'm giving up on the hard work that happens in every relationship. I'm worried that if I stay I'll end up deeper in debt and even more miserable. I don't really feel like I have options either way, and I could use some insight.

If anyone's willing to give this a shot, I'd be happy to do a Tarot reading in exchange. Thanks.

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