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Author Topic: Symbolism and Suggestions  (Read 24742 times)
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« Reply #18: June 20, 2011, 10:58:44 am »

I just want to emphasize that there is nothing you're doing wrong in these situations. I guarantee it. Nothing.

As you rightly say, there are people who'll chat you up no matter what. I guess our misunderstandings came from the fact that the OP was referring to (disturbed) people who'll just randomly chat up strangers, and I was referring to those creeps who think that just because you're female you're very likely to want to have sex with them. With the former group of people, no change of behaviour will help. With the latter, I have found that dressing more modestly and moving a bit differently when I'm out and about alone does help me.

I live in a fairly big city, and I have quite often made the experience that men are more likely to try and chat me up when I'm wearing shortish skirts than when I'm wearing jeans and a sweater. So I decided for myself not to wear short skirts anymore when I'm alone (especially in the evenings) because I hate being chatted up by strangers. It's just a personal preference to take every precaution, because I have to admit that I'm quite scared of strangers at times.

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