I learned that by accident. The yell-ee and I actually became friends for a while.
Sometimes all they need is a hug; we don't have to understand why, it just is. And always worth the effort.
Heh. I've learned the opposite. One of the ways my friends and I have of both staying (semi) sane, and of keeping our friendships healthy is to have mouth battles every once in a while. Just randomly pick a topic we don't agree on, and start arguing, for the fun of it...
Then again, I never claimed that I was anything resembling normal.
Being hyperactive, I have learned NOT to go for desk jobs. As one of my current managers puts it, "She would bounce right out of her chair, and out the window..." I tend to keep active in one way or another.
I play with my children (daily if I can). And I cuddle them as much as possible, especially when I feel like the world just took a healthy dump right on my head.
As for staying physically healthy, I get plenty of exercise between work and kids. I try to eat full meals, and I drink at least two to three liters of water at work, not to mention whatever I get at home. (I have a bottle that is a liter and a half that I use for work, I usually refill it at lunch, and it's usually down to nothing again by the time I leave.)
I also second the hair washing thing. Unless I have been sweating a lot (with summer that is inevitable in the place I work...), I tend to only wash it about once every three days, during summer, at least once every two days. I also let it air dry, never have and never will use a blow dryer, and I don't "style" it with anything (hairspray, gels, etc.).
I don't take in a lot of sweets, but I also don't completely deny myself.
I dance, sing, etc. to either release energy or to build it up. Depending on the effect I want, the music changes.
One other thing I do to relieve stress, is playing with numbers... don't know why that works for me, but it does. I play around with my family budget (rather the numbers surrounding it), figure out what different numbers mean on something, etc.
Oh, and I try not to let my stress levels build up by holding my tongue in check. Easier said than done sometimes, but...