Once you are in a position where you feel comfortable making judgment against the faith of another person, either based upon their morality, how they worship a deity, or their perception of a deity as being consistent with yours then you aren't listening to a god. You're pretending to be one.
I... wonder if there are two different conversations going on here. What I'm seeing everyone else talking about is ordering
their own lives according to the priorities and directions of the deity/ies they follow. What I'm seeing you talking about is people saying that other people ought to be living their lives by those same rules. There's a big difference there, and one that you yourself seem to recognize in the post I'm replying to here, so I wonder if somehow there's some miscommunication happening.