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« Reply #2: August 09, 2008, 02:05:01 am »

latley i've noticed that my parents aren't getting along so well.  i was wondering if there was anyone who knows any spells or anything else i can do to help them realize how much they love eachother, and how much my brother and i love them. thanks

The best thing you can do is you and your brother try to make sure they each know how much you love and appreciate both of them.

Something to bear in mind, there are a lot of things that can happen in a marriage.  And if they are good parents they will not let the kids in to it.  I know this sounds a bit harsh and a bit like they would not be seeing you as an adult.  But, they may not even be talking to others about it.  There could be any number of reasons for what you are seeing, and it may not have anything to do with not realizing that they love each other.  They may fully realize this, but have some problems.  All relationships have these, gods know my hubby and I have had plenty of them.

The thing is, they need to work it out for themselves.  You getting into it could just make things worse, as you likely don't know the background enough to get involved.  My suggestion, in this regard, is to stay out of it.  You and your brother make sure that they know that they are appreciated by you, and kind of try to keep the peace on your own side, other than that, don't try to play relationship doctor to your parents.  I realize this can be hard, but you are not the right person for the job.  And I have said the same to people in their thirties who noticed problems between their parents.  So please do not take this as me being condescending to a teen.

If and when they feel the time is right to talk to you, they will.  Until then, well there is nothing you can do that wouldn't be likely to make matters worse, either for you or for them.

I will however wish you the best of luck in whatever happens, as I do know from experience how hard this can be.  You just live your life the best you can, and let them live theirs.

What you think is possible.  Anything that is possible can become real.  Therefore, reality is a state of mind.
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