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« Topic Start: August 22, 2008, 11:33:16 pm »

If anyone can please spare some prayers/energy/anything at all for my marriage, because lately it feels as though it is ending and i don't want that to be the case.

thanks.
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« Reply #1: August 23, 2008, 12:03:11 am »


(((Lusiphelia)))

May the road through this trial be revealed clearly to you.
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« Reply #2: August 23, 2008, 11:18:28 am »

If anyone can please spare some prayers/energy/anything at all for my marriage, because lately it feels as though it is ending and i don't want that to be the case.

thanks.


Having a baby throws everything about your pre-baby relationship (and indeed your life) totally up in the air for a while. If you are both able to communicate your feelings and needs to each other, and you know he's committed to being in a family with you, everything will be ok, eventually it may even be better, in the long run. Marriage is very hard work, sometimes.
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  to accept with ease & grace what I cannot change.

  The power of Fire,
  for the energy & courage to change the things I can.

  The power of Air,
  for the ability and wisdom to know the difference.

  And the power of Earth,
  for the strength to continue my path.

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« Reply #3: August 24, 2008, 01:20:58 am »


Having a baby throws everything about your pre-baby relationship (and indeed your life) totally up in the air for a while. If you are both able to communicate your feelings and needs to each other, and you know he's committed to being in a family with you, everything will be ok, eventually it may even be better, in the long run. Marriage is very hard work, sometimes.

I whole heartedly agree with this.  My husband and I had some of our biggest relationship differences in the periods during pregnancies, and not long after.  It happens, and being willing and able to communicate (this doesn't just mean saying your points, but listening to your spouses) is the biggest factor to overcoming such things.

And yes, marriage is definitely hard work, all the time, it seems.  You are two individuals trying to live the "same life" for a long period of time.
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« Reply #4: August 24, 2008, 12:34:30 pm »

If anyone can please spare some prayers/energy/anything at all for my marriage, because lately it feels as though it is ending and i don't want that to be the case.
thanks.

(((((Lusiphelia)))))
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« Reply #5: August 24, 2008, 07:55:15 pm »

(((Lusiphelia)))

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Thank you.
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« Reply #6: August 24, 2008, 07:56:54 pm »


Having a baby throws everything about your pre-baby relationship (and indeed your life) totally up in the air for a while. If you are both able to communicate your feelings and needs to each other, and you know he's committed to being in a family with you, everything will be ok, eventually it may even be better, in the long run. Marriage is very hard work, sometimes.

You and wisdomsbane are right.  It is just rough work right now adjusting to everything, and re-adjusting to each other, and being stuck in my parents' house and everything is just kind of volatile now.  I guess we'll see how it all goes.  Back to the peace talks ...

thanks everyone
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« Reply #7: August 24, 2008, 11:59:29 pm »

You and wisdomsbane are right.  It is just rough work right now adjusting to everything, and re-adjusting to each other, and being stuck in my parents' house and everything is just kind of volatile now.  I guess we'll see how it all goes.  Back to the peace talks ...

thanks everyone

hang in there, hon!((((lusiphelia))))
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Goddess grant me:
  The power of Water,
  to accept with ease & grace what I cannot change.

  The power of Fire,
  for the energy & courage to change the things I can.

  The power of Air,
  for the ability and wisdom to know the difference.

  And the power of Earth,
  for the strength to continue my path.

http://rosejayadal.blogspot.com/

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